Finding Common Ground with Family & Friends

When conversations shift to personalities or politics, disagreement can come quickly. But when the topic shifts to the things most of us already agree on, common ground often emerges. From that foundation, a more friendly and constructive conversation becomes possible.

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By simply asking, “Let’s see if we can find a few important issues we both agree on”, avenues of agreement can usually be found. Most people care about fairness, accountability, and making sure the system works as intended. Starting there can shift the conversation away from conflict and toward understanding.

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We’ve created a page called Proposed LAKA Reforms that highlights several issues where common ground may exist. These topics are drawn from real conversations with family and friends, where beginning with the things we both care about can open the door to more thoughtful discussion. Starting there can change the tone of a conversation — and sometimes reveal that we agree on more than we disagree.